It’s A New Day, It’s A New Life, It’s A New Me (and a new cut) ~ Day 1
Well, I started my starting over a little early. I called to set a hair appointment for today and what they had open was yesterday…so I went and got a brand new cut and some highlights. I LOVE IT! I have avoided short hair because “someone” didn’t like it. (He also hated red hair and guess what color hair hers is…PFFFF!)
OK…enough of that cause its now about me and what I, ME, MOI, wants. I am taking back my life…my control. So first step has been accomplished!
I also had a tiny progress with the scale…Im down from last week…239…YAY! I started making a list yesterday of things I aim to do. Basically things to get me back out there and focusing on other things. Im ESSSSCITED!! (Anyone who watches RUBY will understand my spelling of excited :P).
Here is my list so far…haven’t gotten real far yet.
• New cut/style…noticeably different and SASSY!
• Sell jewelry (to pay bills and help fund the big D…divorce, not me ;))
• Get involved with Woman’s group at church
• Get back to attending church regularly
• Take my Kiddos CAMPING!
• Find a lawyer to begin divorce process
• FIND A JOB! Im trying…
• Get off computer and more active
• Get back to some walking
• LOSE weight vs gaining it
• Be a much better BUDDY to the wonderful peeps here…you guys are amazing!
That’s it so far. (My dog Chloe is snoring…she is getting worse with that and GAS as she gets older…she is distracting my brain…short attention span).
Hope you all have an AWESOME Weekend! Will have all my kids here this afternoon/night before taking them to J’s for his bday tomorrow. Looking forward to my time with them all together.
Today is my day to start again…Just Me…relearning…rediscovering…healing…I think I am finally ready =)



Awww Debbie. I love your haircut!!! Coincidentally I have the same cut. I like it on me too. I thought it looked sassy on me too!!! I have not been a short haired person either but you are right, we do what WE like!
Sounds like you are getting rid of a lot of baggage in your life!! I think going thru the divorce will help you move past all of this. I think if it were me, I’d be subconsciously thinking we’d get back together and then it would keep me in turmoil. This will propel you forward in your life. I am sorry that you have to sell things to do it tho!!! Life sux sometimes!!
I am glad to be seeing you on here again. I am glad that you are reaching out!! A church group will be so good for you!!! I keep saying that I am going to go to church but so far, I have not. So, good goals Debbie!!! (((((HUGS)))))
BTW, is the background your yard???? It’s gorgeous!
wow you look so adorable with that haircut. ilove it…
and I lovw the list you wrote. you can always add onto it. but it looks great to me
I love your haircut, you look gorgeous. Good luck with accomplishing everything on your list. I hope you have a wonderful weekend.
Well I told you last night I loved the hair - and still do! I am so glad that you are starting back to focus on you. Just remember you will be worthless to your babes if you don’t take care of you.
Luv ya girl
WOW!WOW!WOW! That cut is sure nuf SASSY, love it get the pic posted immediately on your page. You are right, from now on it is ALL ABOUT YOU. You deserve that. I like your list, keeps you focused on what you need. By the way, find a really mean, bad ass lawyer. You need one you are way toooooooo nice. Love ya.
Love the haircut… it is sooo cute!
AWESOME Hair! Love it! Kudos for getting back to you and good luck with everything.
I LOVE IT GORGEOUS WOMAN!
You have beautiful blue eyes honey!
Debbi,
girl it looks like you have made a wonderful start on turning over that new leaf—it doesnt hurt that your gorgeous in the process either!
Oh I wanna see 239 again—I saw it for one brief second on the scale long ago…congrats!
I really think it looks good, good for you!!!
Good luck with it all
You look great!!! Love the new do! Great plan you have made-Good for you!!!
You look awesome!!! Congrats on your loss too!!! Good luck with your goals!