Is This The Best I Can Do For Myself???
Im going to try asking myself that question before eating along with…Am I REALLY hungry??? I know I am surrounded by chaos right now but my nightmare from a little while back is coming true. Whats that saying…What you fear, you create…or something like that. Ive got to stop the madness. There is no reason I should not be able to lose weight right now…especially with all the “moving exercise” Im getting. Its all emotional eating…I know it. But my freaking out and trying to calm myself with food is only making it worse for me. So, I will try to ask these questions prior to eating…hopefully even prior to the food prep itself. I think I will post these questions on the fridge and pantry as well.
Yesterday was difficult emotionally…but I guess just part of moving through this…part of acceptance. Packed up more photos…tried to divide a few and packed away our wedding photos. Today I have to deal with our late 08 tax returns…current post office for cert. letter and change of address stuff…depositing the last of money to try to keep the car (the one I don’t want)…setting up a PO Box where I am moving…setting up a new bank account (my very own)…and more packing.
I really am sorry and sad to not be on here much. I want to support you guys the best I can. You have done so much for me. I hope you have a successful day…a successful week for that matter. Lets do the best we can…no matter how small it may seem in the big picture…it all matters. Much love to you!
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We know you love us! Don’t worry. When things settle a bit, you’ll be back on more. Big hugs!
debbi…get this over and done with…its hard…but you will make it…now if you dont want the car why pay for it????….i wish you luck…watch you will come out on top of all this!!
The title of your post is something I have to wonder for myself as well. I know I can do better; why aren’t I? Take care of yourself, please.
Viv…the car I dont want for personal reasons…several…but it is a better option than trying to get something else right now and I will HOPEFULLY be able to trade it in at some point.
I will be ok…thanks friends
Hey girl,
I really dont have any advice right now (shocking isnt it? lol). Just know that I love ya. I also know that you love us right back and that your really busy trying to deal with all that stuff. You know we are here when you get a few minutes cause we do miss ya.
(((((((((((((((((DEBBIE))))))))))))))))) Do what you can ok?
Hey you, we all love you, and don’t you worry about supporting us for a while. You lean on us, that’s what we’re here for. Just check in and let us know you are doing ok. (((((hugs))))
Debbie:
Sounds like you are also going through a divorce? I empathize! I am also 43 and just divorced. Feeling sad, scared, unattractive in cycles - it is a hard time to focus on weight! Be gentle with yourself. And let us know how we can help. There are a lot of strong women out here. I have been humbled by their kindness!
Hugs, here for you. You take care of you right now, we will be here.
YOU TAKE THE TIME YOU NEED WE WILL GET THRU THIS TOGETHER
Big Hugs… great question… we’ll get through this together!